江小潮 发表于 2026-1-22 14:56:15

孩子被单亲爸爸“管得太严”,王女士将前夫诉至仙桃法院……

<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" data-pm-slice="0 0 []"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="167339"><section style='margin: 10px auto;background-color: #fffbf2;padding: 3px;box-sizing:border-box;'><section style='display: flex;justify-content: space-between;'><section style='width: 10px;height: 10px;background-color: #dc5d3f;box-sizing:border-box;transform: rotate(45deg);-webkit-transform: rotate(45deg);-moz-transform: rotate(45deg);-o-transform: rotate(45deg);'><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section style='width: 10px;height: 10px;background-color: #dc5d3f;box-sizing:border-box;transform: rotate(45deg);-webkit-transform: rotate(45deg);-moz-transform: rotate(45deg);-o-transform: rotate(45deg);'><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section><section style='padding: 20px 15px;border: 1px solid #dc5d3f;margin: -5px 5px;box-sizing:border-box;'><section data-autoskip="1" style='text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;font-size: 17px;background-color: transparent;'><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“爸爸,下周运动会你能来吗?”在龙华山法庭调解室里,10岁的小轩攥着父亲李先生的衣角轻声发问,李先生红着眼眶坚定点头:“一定到,还给你带运动鞋。”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">这温情一幕,是仙桃法院成功调解一起抚养权纠纷的美好收尾,曾经因教育方式对立的父母,在司法护航下重拾守护孩子的初心。</span></span></p><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="167554" style='color: #333333;'><section style='margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;'><section style='display: flex;align-items: center;'><section style='flex-shrink: 0;margin-right: -15px;z-index: 3;'><section style='font-size: 16px;color: #f6ead6;text-align:center;width: 34px;height: 34px;border-radius: 100%;background-color: #d31f1f;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;box-sizing:border-box;'><strong><span leaf="">0</span></strong><strong data-original-title="" title=""><span leaf="">1</span></strong></section></section><section style='transform: rotateZ(0deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(0deg);'><section style='width: 100%;height: 2px;background: linear-gradient(to right, #ffca6d,#fffaed);max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box;' data-width="100%"><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section style='background: linear-gradient(to right, #fcf3e0,#fffaed);padding: 2px 25px 2px 20px;box-sizing:border-box;'><section style='color: rgb(211, 31, 31); text-align: center;'><strong data-brushtype="text"><p><span leaf="">“严管”教育引发成长危机</span></p></strong></section></section><section style='width: 100%;height: 2px;background: linear-gradient(to right, #ffca6d,#fffaed);max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box;' data-width="100%"><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">2022年,李先生与王女士协议离婚,约定婚生子小轩由父亲李先生抚养。离婚后,身为教师的李先生将全部精力倾注于孩子学业,对小轩提出严苛要求:每日额外布置习题至深夜,考试成绩低于95分便严厉批评,甚至全面禁止孩子参与课外活动。</span></span></p><section style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51);line-height: 2;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;' nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;vertical-align:baseline;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;'></span></section><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">2025年初,王女士发现小轩性情大变,不仅沉默寡言,还频繁出现失眠、厌学等情况,经医院诊断为中度焦虑,医生明确建议立即改善成长环境。为给小轩一个健康的成长空间,王女士向仙桃法院提起诉讼,请求变更抚养权。</span></span></p><section data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="167554" style='color: #333333;'><section style='margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;'><section style='display: flex;align-items: center;'><section style='flex-shrink: 0;margin-right: -15px;z-index: 3;'><section style='font-size: 16px;color: #f6ead6;text-align:center;width: 34px;height: 34px;border-radius: 100%;background-color: #d31f1f;display: flex;justify-content: center;align-items: center;box-sizing:border-box;'><strong><span leaf="">0</span></strong><strong data-original-title="" title=""><span leaf="">2</span></strong></section></section><section style='transform: rotateZ(0deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(0deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(0deg);'><section style='width: 100%;height: 2px;background: linear-gradient(to right, #ffca6d,#fffaed);max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box;' data-width="100%"><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section style='background: linear-gradient(to right, #fcf3e0,#fffaed);padding: 2px 25px 2px 20px;box-sizing:border-box;'><section style='color: rgb(211, 31, 31); text-align: center;'><strong data-brushtype="text"><p><span leaf="">情理法交融化解心结</span></p></strong></section></section><section style='width: 100%;height: 2px;background: linear-gradient(to right, #ffca6d,#fffaed);max-width:100% !important;box-sizing:border-box;' data-width="100%"><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section></section></section></section><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“家事案件不能简单‘一判了之’,既要解法结,更要解心结。”受理案件后,承办法官陈俊美深知,这起抚养权纠纷的核心绝非简单变更抚养主体,而是要守护未成年人小轩的身心健康与成长权益。为切实维护小轩的合法权益,陈俊美当即联合家事调解员,采取“背靠背”调解模式全力推进矛盾化解。</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“我逼他学习是为他好!变更抚养权后,他还认我这个爸爸吗?”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“李先生,你严厉管教的初衷是好的,但现在这种方式已经给孩子造成了心理负担,甚至引发了焦虑。而且你要明白,</span><span leaf="">真正的父爱应是温暖的守护,而非沉重的枷锁,</span><span leaf="">变更抚养权不是剥夺父子亲情,而是让孩子在更适宜的环境中成长,你作为父亲的责任和爱,从来都不会因为抚养方式的改变而减少分毫。”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“更何况小轩已经10岁了,我们要尊重他的意愿……”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">调解室内,</span><span style='background-color: transparent; caret-color: red;'><span leaf="">面对情绪激动的李先生,陈俊美没有急于反驳,而是先表示理解他望子成龙的心情,随后拿出小轩的诊断报告,结合相关法律规定,耐心向其释法说理。</span></span></span></p><section style='line-height: 2;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;' nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;vertical-align:baseline;width:100%;box-sizing:border-box;'></span></section><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“孩子见了他就躲,作业本上全是泪痕……”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“想和妈妈生活,爸爸的要求我永远达不到。”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">另一边,王女士提起孩子的状态便红了眼眶,小轩也怯生生地表示今后想跟着母亲一起生活。陈俊美一边耐心安抚着母子俩的情绪,一边引导王女士换位思考:“李先生的严格管教源于父爱,只是方式失当。变更抚养权后,也请你多理解他的心情,保障他的探视权,这对孩子的成长同样重要。”王女士当即郑重承诺:“法官你放心,我会经常带孩子见他的,绝不阻拦父子正常相处。”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);background-color: transparent;caret-color: red;'><span leaf="">为彻底打消李先生的顾虑,陈俊美与调解员进一步细化了探视协议:每周六上午由李先生接走小轩,周日送回;重大节日父母共同陪伴孩子;小轩的学习情况由双方定期同步。</span></span><span leaf=""><br></span></p><p style='text-align:center;color: #333333;line-height: 2;text-indent: 0em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;vertical-align:baseline;width:100%;'></span></span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">“只要对孩子好,我听法官的。”</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">当李先生看到小轩偷偷塞来的写着“爸爸,我还是爱你的”纸条时,这位固执的父亲红了眼眶,内心的防线彻底瓦解。最终,在陈俊美的主持下,双方自愿签订调解协议,一致同意小轩变更为由王女士直接抚养,李先生按约定行使探视权。</span></span></p><p style='color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 2; text-indent: 2em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span leaf="">签字后,小轩快步上前,同时抱住了父母,久违的亲情暖意,在调解室里缓缓重燃。</span></span></p></section></section><section style='display: flex;justify-content: space-between;'><section style='width: 10px;height: 10px;background-color: #dc5d3f;box-sizing:border-box;transform: rotate(45deg);-webkit-transform: rotate(45deg);-moz-transform: rotate(45deg);-o-transform: rotate(45deg);'><span leaf=""><br></span></section></section></section></section><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="164740"><section style='margin: 10px auto;display: flex;justify-content: center;'><section><section style='width: 45px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: -7px; margin-left: auto; box-sizing: border-box;' nodeleaf=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;display: block;vertical-align:baseline;box-sizing:border-box;max-width:100% !important;'></span></section><section style='background-color: rgb(255, 250, 232); padding-bottom: 4px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; border-radius: 10px; overflow: hidden; box-sizing: border-box;'><section style='border: 1px solid #ffe17b;border-radius: 10px;padding: 5px 10px 2px;background-color: rgb(255,250,237);box-sizing:border-box;'><section style='font-size: 16px;color: #af441d;text-align: center;'><strong data-brushtype="text"><span leaf="">END</span></strong></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" data-pm-slice="7 4 []"><section data-role="paragraph" style='-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: justify; letter-spacing: 0.578px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><section data-role="paragraph" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; height: 0px;'><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; height: 0px;'><span leaf=""><br></span></section><section data-role="paragraph" style='-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><p style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='color: #000000;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;caret-color: red;'><span leaf=""><br></span></span></p><p style='-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.5px; caret-color: red;'><span leaf="" style=''><font size="1" style='' color="#c0c0c0">来源/湖北省仙桃市人民法院</font></span></span></p></section></section></section><p style='display: none;'><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p></div><p></p>

智行天下 发表于 2026-1-23 12:45:11

泪目了。一个不完整的家庭害的是孩子啊!
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